tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11320601.post114494352383622308..comments2023-06-17T04:18:16.924-04:00Comments on Original Me: A Wee Senstitive Little GirlOriginal Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08561816790636481666noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11320601.post-1145306071931101732006-04-17T16:34:00.000-04:002006-04-17T16:34:00.000-04:00oh. that makes much more sense now. can i retract ...oh. that makes much more sense now. <BR/><BR/>can i retract my comment? i was misinformed! :)Virginia Bellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09139549722127680662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11320601.post-1145109326331744902006-04-15T09:55:00.000-04:002006-04-15T09:55:00.000-04:00yeah, he is a lovely guy and he is not treating me...yeah, he is a lovely guy and he is not treating me like crap in all honesty. I need to point that out. And friends that have met him and know our situation will surely point that out. I also should probably point out that I am exaggerating moreso than really analyzing the paramaters of our relationship. Like, I didn't really analyze our conversation on architectural styles. <BR/><BR/>Right now I like his company yet I want to date others. We are more friends than anything else right now and I want to keep it at that. But obviously this post tells even me that perhaps I am developing feelings for him. I'll admit that. But isn't that how relationships should come about? friends first? for me, I'd like to try it that way. So if things start to become hot and heavy then I will deal with that when the time comes. I will blog about it! The we-should-be-dating-big-boy convo!<BR/><BR/>This whole post came about because he couldn't accompany me to one thing because, um, his mom was coming in town. And I was PMSing and when those two things come together I huff a little in an absurd way because I tend to think some things are all about me. That time of the month it always is, ya'know?<BR/><BR/>And I will point out for myself, that it is interesting that I am only talking about this one boy on my blog. There are others yet they aren't getting mention (unless they are Very Bad Date). This tells me that perhaps he is growing on me and I am exploring that in my writing. So, I promise, when I feel I need more from him, I will communicate it with him. A lesson I have learned.Original Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08561816790636481666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11320601.post-1145063339509754602006-04-14T21:08:00.000-04:002006-04-14T21:08:00.000-04:00Oh Beaker...Friends or more...he's a nice guy.Oh Beaker...Friends or more...he's a nice guy.Mavhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10903361790383124127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11320601.post-1144971552419114972006-04-13T19:39:00.000-04:002006-04-13T19:39:00.000-04:00sorry if that was too harsh. it's just that i've b...sorry if that was too harsh. it's just that i've been there. and it's painful and it sucks. so i try to prevent people from having that same pain. you need to think more all-or-nothing with him. play hard ball, so to speak. don't you have better things to do than to second-guess his behavior and analyze it to death?<BR/><BR/>ok, i'll shut up now.Virginia Bellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09139549722127680662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11320601.post-1144971246952939282006-04-13T19:34:00.000-04:002006-04-13T19:34:00.000-04:00...and this is why i play hard to get. for the fir......and this is why i play hard to get. for the first month or so. THEN i start playing a larger role.<BR/><BR/>he is treating you like crap because you are LETTING him. don't have contact with him unless it is ahead of schedule and he is asking you out on a date. ask him if it is a date. STOP settling for the crumbs of affection he is throwing your way. sheesh! you are worth more than crumbs, girl!<BR/><BR/>disappear on his ass. when he asks what's going on, tell him you want to be dating him. if he hesitates, forget him. you are worth a man's entire attention. if you don't value yourself and your time, neither will he.Virginia Bellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09139549722127680662noreply@blogger.com